Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Social Circling

I am still working on developing a social circle. I am looking through meetup.com over and over to see if any I can find any new events. I just found another group called the Pas. Social club. This group seems to be a local group formed by people working in that area, in order to hang out after work, etc. I don't know how I joined this group; I don't remember clicking join this group, I just happened to check out their event details on the site. Anyway now I am a member in the group. At least they did not reject me like that Asian group. They have a meeting this Thursday evening, I might check it out. I have not clicked on their RSVP link yet. I want to check it out, but it close my yoga class time, so I'll decide tomorrow.

Other than that I have just been looking on meetup.com to find an event that I like that is close by, etc. It takes quite some searching to find a particular event that interests me, since I have to filter through all the ones that I cannot go. I have not visited the community college bulletin board yet. I will try to do that this evening.

Other than this I cannot really think of any other ways to actively work on my social circle. I have never actively tried to form a social circle this way, it is new to me. The social circles in the past just happened to me passively since I was in school, etc. But even then I rarely got invited to BBQ parties, etc. Ever since I have been out of school I have been like a fish out of water and I am finding it hard to make new friends.

Hopefully this group on Thursday is fun, and I will try to check it out. It will be my first meetup.com meet up experience if I go. Other than that I have the Saturday Indian event to look forward to. I am not able to think of any other ways to meet people, but at least this is a good start. Hopefully I will go from zero socialization to some socialization.

2 comments:

  1. Why are you making this harder than it needs to be? The community college IS your social circle. Go there and start socializing as one of the students. Wear a backpack if you feel more comfortable and attend classes you're not enrolled in just to socialize with the boys and girls (to fuck the girls in your multiple social circles)

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  2. http://manhood101.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=33&t=1424&p=5317#p5317

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